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Here are some ways to politely refuse someone offering to send you gifts:

• Thank them for the kind gesture but explain that you don't wish to impose. You can say something like "Thank you so much for thinking of me. However, I don't want to be a burden and impose on you." 

• Express that you appreciate the thought but you don't require any gifts. Say "That's very kind of you. But please don't feel you have to send me anything, your thoughtfulness is gift enough."

• Mention that you don't want them to go through the hassle. You can say "You're very sweet. But I don't want you to go through the trouble of sending me anything, I know you're busy."

• Suggest spending time together instead of exchanging gifts. For example "Rather than gifts, I would prefer we spend time together when we can." This shifts the focus to your relationship rather than material things.

• Tell a "white lie" and say you don't have enough space. You can gently say "You're very kind but I honestly don't have enough room at the moment." This avoids hurting their feelings directly.

• Thank them and change the subject. If they are insistent, you can politely but firmly refuse multiple times while expressing your gratitude. Then steer the conversation elsewhere.

• As a last resort, explain directly but kindly that you prefer not to receive gifts. Say something like "I appreciate the thought very much. But I prefer not to receive gifts, I hope you understand."

The most important thing is to remain gracious, appreciative of their kindness, and firm but gentle in your refusal. Hopefully one of these suggestions can help you politely decline the gift offer while preserving the relationship. Let me know if you have any other questions!